It’s Ok, to Not Be Ok follows Tuff, a young boy whose familiar family life changes when his parents begin living in separate homes. Confused by what is happening, Tuff carries sadness, fear, and anger that he cannot simply make disappear. The people around him promise that everything will be okay, but their words do not match what he feels inside.
Then a caring teacher offers Tuff something more meaningful than a quick answer. She gives him permission to feel. With patience and support, Tuff begins to rediscover laughter, play, and hope. His family may look different, but he learns that he and his siblings are still loved and will never be alone.
This book gives children and trusted adults a gentle way to talk about family changes and difficult emotions. Through honest language, simple rhymes, and childlike illustrations, Tuff’s journey reminds young readers that healing does not have to happen all at once.
Offers hope without dismissing what a child is experiencing

Tuff is a young boy who uses rhyme to share what happens when the home he knows changes suddenly.

When Tuff’s parents begin living in separate homes, he struggles to understand why his family cannot stay together.

Sadness, fear, anger, and confusion follow Tuff as he tries to make sense of a life that no longer feels familiar.

Adults tell Tuff everything will be okay, but their reassurance does not match what he feels inside.

A caring teacher gives Tuff something different: permission to feel what he feels without pretending to be okay.

Tuff slowly begins to smile, laugh, and play again, learning that hard feelings can be accepted while brighter days return.